My Review of “This is How it Always Is” by Laurie Frankel

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WOW!! Kudos to Laurie Frankel, author or “This is How it Always Is”. The genre of this book is Fiction, but in the author’s notes she courageously writes that the motivation comes  from  her living with a family member with the same issues.

Rosie and Penn have five children. Rosie is a Physician and Penn is a writer, and tells the children made up fairy tales. The baby of the family Claude is different. Claude loves to wear dresses, play with dolls, wears jewelry, Barrettes in his hair,and approaches life differently than his brothers.Claude is happiest when can do this.Rosie and Penn want to see their children happy. Claude draws himself with long hair and dresses.At first his parents feel that all children go through phases.

This is a controversial topic that is spoken about currently, but I feel that many of these issues just have always existed but never were addressed as openly. Children(and adults) can be devastatingly cruel, be bullies, and do not accept whatever the “norm” should be. It is not often that we speak of transgender children, sometimes as young as three.

Laurie Frankel gives me much to think about. Should answers be black and white, yes or no? Does a person have to make up their mind if  they feel they are a girl/boy? Is it so simple? Should society force families to keep a “secret” if their feelings don’t conform to what is supposedly expected?

I love the way that Laurie Frankel writes about family, love, support and acceptance I also feel that the hardest job in life is to be a parent. Of course, we want to see our children happy, but can we admit that we have certain expectations that might be or not be in our children’s best interest?

I  highly recommend this intriguing novel. It is so very different and unique, and Laurie Frankel’s descriptions are amazing!

 

5 comments on “My Review of “This is How it Always Is” by Laurie Frankel”

    1. Hi!! I love reading your reviews, and your recommendations!!Thank you for following me. I deeply appreciate it! My blog is a work in progress and I am just getting the hang of it. I just followed you on Twitter(peachyteach) and see you are in some of the book groups that I am on Facebook. Of course I am following your blog, and I think it is wonderful!!Best regard, Linda

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